Beauty and the Beast (Letter 22)

I’m a newer player, but I’ve managed to hold my own and even win a fair number of games against more experienced players. After each hand, when we reveal what we were working on, two players at my table often tell me I should stick to “easier” hands. The thing is—I enjoy challenging myself and experimenting with different options based on the tiles I get in the Charleston.

Should I focus on playing it safe, or keep pushing myself to try more difficult hands so I can become comfortable with the entire card?

Trying New Paths

Dear Trying New Paths,

Mah jongg is a solo mind-sport. Each player is a free agent, making the best decisions they can with their tiles. You alone are responsible for the hand you choose—and that’s both the beauty of the game and the nature of the beast.

Each round is a new journey with choices that lead down different paths. Many players prefer “easier” hands because they’re familiar, quicker to build, or less risky. But there’s nothing wrong with stretching yourself. Exploring different hands is a great way to sharpen your skills and build confidence.

After the game, take advice with a grain of salt—but remember: it’s your hand, your skills, your strategies, your journey.

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